Be The Confident Woman Every Man Wants

Confidence is attractive. I’m sure men will agree with me that a confident woman, who knows what she wants and what she is all about, is irresistible. And one of the factors to be a confident woman is by avoiding the usual mistakes women say that make them look and sound insecure. And if you want to know how to attract a man and captivate him with your confidence, then take heed of what you say…

*Stop your “like” habit. You know this one- “It’s like I’m so interested!” This is where you insert the word, “like” in each of your sentences.

*Saying, “like” sounds immature. It stands between you and the meaning of the message you would like to convey. And if you want to be the confident woman who means what she says, then break this habit. I myself am guilty of this one, so let’s stop all together.

*Too timid to question. This can happened in your office or when you and your friends are planning something. You may want to clarify something or question something about your client’s proposal or your girlfriend’s idea of going to the woods in the dead of winter, but you’d rather keep quite and save yourself some “trivial” discussion or argument.

*You may feel it’s futile or too exhausting to question, but keep in mind that a confident woman, always wants to know what she’s getting into.

*Never underestimate your ideas. When you have a wonderful idea to share, don’t hesitate to stand- up and be heard, especially if you believe that your idea can be beneficial to the majority. Men love a woman who has a mind of her own, an individual who can take care of herself. A man, who disagrees with this theory, is not much of a man.

*Learn to be comfortable with compliments. Do you find this scenario familiar? Compliment: “I love your shoes, they’re gorgeous!”Your answer: “What? This old thing? I got them at a discount. They’re really uncomfortable, but I guess they’re alright.” This is a classic female reflex. When someone gives you a compliment, you diffuse it and reply a contradictory statement. If you are uncomfortable about accepting flattery, just smile and say thank you. That simple! The giver of the compliment will appreciate you for your acknowledgment and at the same time sees you as a person who is comfortable about herself!

There as so many ways to show how awesome and confident you are. Why don’t you fire back, girls and share your little confidence secret to our fellow sisters.