Men sometimes underestimate the power of using sweet romantic pick up lines on women. There are many women out there, who would appreciate a romantic approach. There has been a growing trend in modern society to frown upon sweet and romantic approaches and instead advocate being tough and neutral. Whilst, the latter does work for some women, there is still a great deal of women that would appreciate the former.
If you are thinking of approaching beautiful women and are lost in thought on what to say, partly because you are nervous and partly because of you are clueless then I suggest trying some of these romantic pick up lines below:
1. My love for you is like the energizer bunny; it keeps going and going.
2. Is it hot in here or is it just you?
3. Do you believe in love at first sight or should I walk by again?
4. I am writing a paper on the finer things in life, so may I interview you?
5. Do you have a band aid? She answers "no." You responds by saying "Cause I think I scrapped my knee when I fell for you."
6. I bet you a $100 you are going to turn me down?
7. Hey you know Dr. Phil says I am afraid of commitment....Do you want to prove him wrong?
8. Was your father an alien? Because there is nothing else like you on earth!
9. How much does a polar bear weight? Enough to break the ice.
10. Have you always been this cute or did you work at it?
11. If I told you, you were very beautiful; would you hold it against me?
12. You should be someone's wife. What are your thoughts on marriage?
13. Come live in my heart and pay no rent.
14. You are a 9- you would be a perfect 10 if you were with me.
15. Here are the keys to my house, my car and my heart.
These sweet romantic pick up lines are meant to be said in a fun and cheerful way. It is essential that you smile when delivering them. Don't ever appear to be serious when delivering them or take it seriously. If you deliver these with the right attitude and spirit then you should expect positive results, at the very least a smile.
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2012年7月4日星期三
Supreme Love: A Bigger, Deeper Connection for Couples
Supreme Love: Desire for and expressions of love, emotional intimacy, romance, passion, lust and erotic intimacy.
Romantic relationships begin with "Supreme Love." Intense feelings of attraction, loving and sexual desire are integrated; the forces aligned and balanced, blend effortlessly creating a fragile bond - though our feelings make us believe the connection is untouchable.
Relationship manuals forgot to say:
"To preserve this supreme bond, you must nurture emotional and erotic love. Both are necessary for a complete relationship."
Without attention, the bond weakens and the elements of "Supreme Love" begin to fragment. Often, women shift toward the emotional and affectionate elements of love, while men drift toward the lustful and erotic. This fragmentation causes relationships to breakdown. The challenge for couples who wish to attain "Supreme Love" is to reinforce both elements.
Building Emotional Intimacy
When do you feel closest to your partner emotionally?
For us, it's after conflict:
Bob was going to arrange an "anniversary getaway." He put it off. When he finally called, the B&B was booked. Lori was furious.
We knew we needed to cool off before talking. We sat down together in the kitchen - our place for working stuff out.
Lori calmly expressed her frustration with Bob's inattention to planning ahead. It made her feel she wasn't important. Bob listened, though it hurt. He knew he'd really let her down. He apologized, saying it wasn't his intention - he hadn't written it down. Lori accepted the apology, trusting that Bob wouldn't hurt her intentionally.
Next, Bob told Lori how he felt when she yelled. He knew she worked to keep her volume down, but when she didn't, he felt attacked. Bob said yelling made it hard to listen with an open heart. Lori said that she was sorry and Bob accepted her apology.
There was a letting go of anger and hurt. We looked into each other's eyes and said we loved each other. We shared a wonderful hug.
The emotional journey we had just taken was painful. But we knew resentment would brew if we didn't embrace conflict. We each took ownership for our part.
Through tears, we were able to express ourselves and be listened to respectfully; no blame, just a genuine sharing of our hearts. That's emotional intimacy.
Building Erotic Intimacy
The other half of "Supreme Love" involves the erotic connection, stoking the fire of our passionate, romantic and sexual desire.
First, a little education, since this was also left out of the manual:
One in five couples have a "sexless" marriage (sex less than ten times a year).
One third of couples have mismatched sexual desire.
Having sex 1-2x/week is considered average.
Only 40% of married couples report being "very satisfied" with their sex lives.
50% of the population needs to make an effort to feel sexual desire.
When sexuality in marriage is healthy, sex accounts for just 15-20% of relationship satisfaction; but in relationships with conflict/avoidance of sex, it plays a larger role.
Married couples have more satisfying sex than single or divorced people.
In our practice, seeing couples with low-sex or no-sex relationships is common. There are many reasons couples avoid sex: not making sex a priority; stress/exhaustion; low libido - perhaps caused by medication, menopause or other hormone changes; performance anxiety; weight gain/body image issues; intimacy anxiety; conflict, anger, feelings of rejection; use of pornography; affairs; not feeling close emotionally; boredom or mismatched libidos.
Whatever the reason, avoidance creates more avoidance. Couples who do not nurture the erotic connection in their relationship risk affairs, divorce and general unhappiness.
Lovemaking is a wonderful part of a relationship. With effort, a good erotic connection can be made great. Where there is low/no sexual desire, sparks can be reignited when the underlying issue is identified.
Communicating about your sexual connection is vital. With love and respect, discuss the roadblock(s) to an improved sex life. Commit to change this part of your relationship. Support each other's effort. Boost your partner's self-esteem with encouragement and appreciation.
We also recommend the following. We call it:
"The Ten 'T's That Will Grow or Re-Ignite Your Erotic Connection"
1) Talk - Tell each other what excites you.
2) Tease - Make out on the couch - with clothes on.
3) Touch - Use sensual touch outside the bedroom.
4) Tune-In - Ask your partner what makes him/her feel more loved.
5) Take Time - Make erotic connection a priority.
6) Tune-Up - Be more creative, adventurous and playful with sex.
7) Travel - Go away together to focus on your relationship.
8) Toys - Use sexual toys.
9) Try It Anyway - Begin - desire will follow.
10) Thank Your Partner - Express gratitude for your partner's efforts.
With attention, the fragile bond of emotional and erotic love becomes the "Supreme Love" that lasts a lifetime.
Romantic relationships begin with "Supreme Love." Intense feelings of attraction, loving and sexual desire are integrated; the forces aligned and balanced, blend effortlessly creating a fragile bond - though our feelings make us believe the connection is untouchable.
Relationship manuals forgot to say:
"To preserve this supreme bond, you must nurture emotional and erotic love. Both are necessary for a complete relationship."
Without attention, the bond weakens and the elements of "Supreme Love" begin to fragment. Often, women shift toward the emotional and affectionate elements of love, while men drift toward the lustful and erotic. This fragmentation causes relationships to breakdown. The challenge for couples who wish to attain "Supreme Love" is to reinforce both elements.
Building Emotional Intimacy
When do you feel closest to your partner emotionally?
For us, it's after conflict:
Bob was going to arrange an "anniversary getaway." He put it off. When he finally called, the B&B was booked. Lori was furious.
We knew we needed to cool off before talking. We sat down together in the kitchen - our place for working stuff out.
Lori calmly expressed her frustration with Bob's inattention to planning ahead. It made her feel she wasn't important. Bob listened, though it hurt. He knew he'd really let her down. He apologized, saying it wasn't his intention - he hadn't written it down. Lori accepted the apology, trusting that Bob wouldn't hurt her intentionally.
Next, Bob told Lori how he felt when she yelled. He knew she worked to keep her volume down, but when she didn't, he felt attacked. Bob said yelling made it hard to listen with an open heart. Lori said that she was sorry and Bob accepted her apology.
There was a letting go of anger and hurt. We looked into each other's eyes and said we loved each other. We shared a wonderful hug.
The emotional journey we had just taken was painful. But we knew resentment would brew if we didn't embrace conflict. We each took ownership for our part.
Through tears, we were able to express ourselves and be listened to respectfully; no blame, just a genuine sharing of our hearts. That's emotional intimacy.
Building Erotic Intimacy
The other half of "Supreme Love" involves the erotic connection, stoking the fire of our passionate, romantic and sexual desire.
First, a little education, since this was also left out of the manual:
One in five couples have a "sexless" marriage (sex less than ten times a year).
One third of couples have mismatched sexual desire.
Having sex 1-2x/week is considered average.
Only 40% of married couples report being "very satisfied" with their sex lives.
50% of the population needs to make an effort to feel sexual desire.
When sexuality in marriage is healthy, sex accounts for just 15-20% of relationship satisfaction; but in relationships with conflict/avoidance of sex, it plays a larger role.
Married couples have more satisfying sex than single or divorced people.
In our practice, seeing couples with low-sex or no-sex relationships is common. There are many reasons couples avoid sex: not making sex a priority; stress/exhaustion; low libido - perhaps caused by medication, menopause or other hormone changes; performance anxiety; weight gain/body image issues; intimacy anxiety; conflict, anger, feelings of rejection; use of pornography; affairs; not feeling close emotionally; boredom or mismatched libidos.
Whatever the reason, avoidance creates more avoidance. Couples who do not nurture the erotic connection in their relationship risk affairs, divorce and general unhappiness.
Lovemaking is a wonderful part of a relationship. With effort, a good erotic connection can be made great. Where there is low/no sexual desire, sparks can be reignited when the underlying issue is identified.
Communicating about your sexual connection is vital. With love and respect, discuss the roadblock(s) to an improved sex life. Commit to change this part of your relationship. Support each other's effort. Boost your partner's self-esteem with encouragement and appreciation.
We also recommend the following. We call it:
"The Ten 'T's That Will Grow or Re-Ignite Your Erotic Connection"
1) Talk - Tell each other what excites you.
2) Tease - Make out on the couch - with clothes on.
3) Touch - Use sensual touch outside the bedroom.
4) Tune-In - Ask your partner what makes him/her feel more loved.
5) Take Time - Make erotic connection a priority.
6) Tune-Up - Be more creative, adventurous and playful with sex.
7) Travel - Go away together to focus on your relationship.
8) Toys - Use sexual toys.
9) Try It Anyway - Begin - desire will follow.
10) Thank Your Partner - Express gratitude for your partner's efforts.
With attention, the fragile bond of emotional and erotic love becomes the "Supreme Love" that lasts a lifetime.
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